My All Hallow's Day

I gave up this blog a few months ago because writing about injuries can suck. When one realizes they actually injure themselves everyday, it becomes more of a "what the hell happened to me" moment than fodder for a good post. But today, I remembered that daily injuries happen to others, in more horrific and public ways than just tripping on the sidewalk.

This afternoon, my friend called to tell me that one of their cats had passed away. Although that may not seem too horrendous (for example, I said "cats" not "cat," and it's not "me"). The cat that died was young and died suddenly. It was also the cuddliest, hungriest, friendliest cats on earth. That cat could be folded into a pillow... a fluffy, hungry, cat-filled pillow.

Anyway, it made me put in perspective all my recent injuries and setbacks: reorgs, rejections, repairs and revisions. This is the note I sent to my friend on behalf of Mr. Lemonywinks. Note: I've never performed a cat eulogy.

"Sadly, I'm sorry for what you're going through. Mr. Winks was such a good boy, and I know that he was probably in your "Top 5 Beings in the World." Meaning, losing him is probably very very painful. Micah and I are upset because Mr. Winks was a great cat, and we're also incredibly sad because you're devastated right now. Although, to be honest, Mr. Winks would just be gorging himself if you passed on. That's his thing... eating.

"Mr. Winks was your fluffy little kid. Except, he wasn't quite, because kids grow up and cats grow up fast. Although your time with him seems short for you, he did have a wonderful life and was very happy with all the love you showed him. You gave him so much, and I know he was very content with all the care, snuggles, food, and catnip you provided. In short, you're a good cat parent and wonderful provider to everyone in your family.

"Again, please let me know if there's anything we can do. If you want dinner, household help, or just to get some brunch over the weekend, please let us know. This has to be a horrific and painful experience, and Micah and I want to support you through it. Also, next time we're at Dearborn, we'll make a donation to a collaborative shelter in Mr. Lemonywinks' name. This is a very hard time, but it will get better, and you must remember that you did well by Mr. Winks, and you've given him (and the rest of us) the love, support and friendship we all really need. "